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Who are you choosing to listen to and who is leading you on your life path? 8. Everything you do in life is motivated by your desire to meet your psychological needs. Why spend your energy on something that will never give you a ROI. This explains all of your behaviours and decisions. When you dig deep to understand why you do what you do, you'll notice your self serving and sabotaging behaviour isn't random. It's really a desire to meet your needs. Find out what motivates you so you can meet your needs in a self serving way. 9. You're constantly competing. It's tempting to say you don't base your decisions on what others are doing . because you want to make yourself happy. But if you look very closely, you'll see that you're competing. You'll notice you measure how happy you are to how happy your friend is, or the status of your achievements to how much your colleague has achieved. 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